Sex - have you ever had a moment where your partner

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...suddenly does something that you perceive strange and you would prefer not to do?? And it's a kind of OMG moment!

im glad im not in northampton then just close hehe

lol at that comment its an exit not entrance.bum sex is a big no for me but hubby wants to

Im sorry WT but your switching lanes and carwash analogy (pardon the pun!!!) has just covered my keyboard in coffee!!!

lol at no bummy bummy, still giggling.

Plese tell me he doesn't sniff it afterwards

put your fingers in his bum and see how he likes it

put your fingers in his bum and see how he likes it

some men really enjoy that though - you can massage the prostate via his bum and it is very sensual....apparently

so I have read BTW

I'm sorry but I think everyones fingers should just stay away from everyone elses bums.

SOme men, and some women, really enjoy anal penetration. Others don't. If you don't like the idea, tell your partner you don't want to do it. But only offer to do him with a strap on if you are prepared for him to accept enthusiastically.
There's nothing wrong with bumsex if the participants enjoy it, just like there's nothing wrong with oral sex if the participants enjoy it, people's sexual preferences vary and as long as everyone consents, there's nothing to worry about.

WMMC - is there a mnet "link of the week" - you even took my mind off my mil probs!