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In an abusive same sex relationship

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Rina1971 · 30/06/2025 06:58

Feeling really low. My female partner is controlling and derogatory. Our (my) daughter leaves for University in September. I plan to leave the partner knows this but will not entertain into any discussions about finances. The houses are in her name but my money. Not sure what to do. If I walk I lose everything.

OP posts:
MiloMinderbinder925 · 30/06/2025 07:08

You can contact the National Domestic Abuse helpline or Galop for support.
https://www.galop.org.uk/

Rights of Women can give free legal advice.

You can also try the Financial abuse helpline
https://survivingeconomicabuse.org/what-we-do/financial-support-line/

Galop - the LGBT+ anti-abuse charity

Galop works with and for LGBT+ victims and survivors of abuse and violence in the UK

https://www.galop.org.uk

GuevarasBeret · 30/06/2025 07:10

Have you evidence that it was your money? You are going to have to get a solicitor to get this sorted out.

Your life will be so much better on the other side.

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