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Boyfriend on holiday with mates

9 replies

Jackie5509 · 29/06/2025 00:13

Hi,
just looking for some advise or Aibu ?
my boyfriend has been away for last few days with his friends in Spain
I am in a long distance relationship with him for last 10 months only an hours flight and it's going really well more than I thought it would

anyway he sent me a video just before of him actually videoing them at a night club surrounded by women who are obviously looking for the free drink as they have a table and he sent it to me
I really don't appreciate these kind of videos and it sends my mind in to overdrive we are women after all and he's obviously had a lot to drink
he's back tomorrow and I don't know how to handle this because I'm upset and I'm also really annoyed.

I do trust him and he's an absolute gentleman and he's the only one in the group who's not married
I understand it's holidays it's fun drinks are flowing but for the love of god can someone just calm me down before I ruin a good thing

OP posts:
Fannyy · 29/06/2025 00:55

Go to bed m8

Alwaysbackagain · 29/06/2025 06:41

Why has he sent you the video OP?
Seems as though he wants you to worry and make you jealous.
Why isn't he on holiday with you?

Jackie5509 · 29/06/2025 09:08

@Alwaysbackagain I think he just innocently sent it to me but I have in my mind overreacted to it
there was a few girls around the table waiting for the drinks to be poured !

it was a lads holiday
we are only back a few weeks from holiday together

OP posts:
Bertielong3 · 29/06/2025 09:11

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londongirl12 · 29/06/2025 09:13

What exactly are you annoyed about?

DildoSaggins · 29/06/2025 09:18

He is on holiday and there are bound to be girls around. You say you trust him so what, exactly, is your problem and what are you annoyed about? That he sent the video to you? Would you rather he hadn't?

Choppedcoriander · 29/06/2025 09:20

But what are you annoyed about?

Alwaysbackagain · 29/06/2025 10:53

Jackie5509 · 29/06/2025 09:08

@Alwaysbackagain I think he just innocently sent it to me but I have in my mind overreacted to it
there was a few girls around the table waiting for the drinks to be poured !

it was a lads holiday
we are only back a few weeks from holiday together

Well you cant have it both ways OP.

If you are happy with him.having a holiday with his pals you cant be surprised there are other women enjoying thenselves in his company.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 29/06/2025 10:59

we are women after all

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