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I can't mend

5 replies

Gimpee · 28/06/2025 14:49

I had 17 years marriage to a voilent abusive man he hurt my sons they don't see him but I take all their issues I know I made mistakes but how long before I forgive myself

OP posts:
Bittenonce · 28/06/2025 16:39

We all make mistakes. We can’t undo them. All we can do, is do the right things now. So if you’re doing that, hold your head up!

MiloMinderbinder925 · 28/06/2025 17:28

All you can do is address what's going on now. Get them support and help.

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Gimpee · 28/06/2025 19:48

I walk on egg shells there dad showed them how to control I have stopped taking all medicines I don't want to go on they have isolated me like father no friends no holidays and its all give me

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 28/06/2025 20:08

Gimpee · 28/06/2025 19:48

I walk on egg shells there dad showed them how to control I have stopped taking all medicines I don't want to go on they have isolated me like father no friends no holidays and its all give me

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Neveranynamesleft · 28/06/2025 20:11

How old are your sons ??

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