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I'm insecure about my menopausal body even though my husband finds me hotter

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MenopausalWife · 28/06/2025 13:01

I'm insecure about my menopausal body even though my husband finds me hotter.
The weight gain, fat redistribution, excessive sweating, hot flashes, body odor, ect

Ironically, my husband thinks I'm sexier now but I still feel ugly and gross.

Help me ?!

OP posts:
Eyesopenwideawake · 28/06/2025 13:02

Assume you are wrong, husband is right.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 28/06/2025 13:03

Eyesopenwideawake · 28/06/2025 13:02

Assume you are wrong, husband is right.

.. and get HRT, if you want.

Original poster
MenopausalWife · 28/06/2025 13:04

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 28/06/2025 13:03

.. and get HRT, if you want.

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I'm on HRT

OP posts:
TinyTempest · 28/06/2025 13:04

He finds you hotter because you literally are! 🤣

Original poster
MenopausalWife · 28/06/2025 13:05

TinyTempest · 28/06/2025 13:04

He finds you hotter because you literally are! 🤣

Yeah, maybe I should have said sexier in the title. 😂😂😂

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NamechangeJunebaby · 28/06/2025 19:02

Embrace it….. are you lucky enough for the HRT to make you feel saucier? That’s how menopause generally affected me…. A big sweaty mess who was turned on by the most minor things! Certainly helped and DH was amazed. Not been like this since my twenties!

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