Hi everyone, I broke up with my ex-BF of 3 years a little under 2 months ago and last week, I decided to get myself on Bumble, Hinge, and FB Dating just to see what its like.
I have gotten a lot of matches on Bumble and FB dating especially, and men are sending me messages, but I just feel so "blah" about all of them. No one has seemed enticing to me after the first couple of messages, and I find myself getting bored with conversations FAST.... is this normal?
I am 33F, and fairly attractive/fit, so I expected all the matches. What I didn't expect was my lack of attraction literally towards all of them. And I am not matching with losers. Most of them have great jobs, like business owners, surgeons, investors, etc.
I met my EX on Hinge 3 years ago, and I remember we hit it off so fast. And I had this feeling of "I cant wait to here from him" almost from the start, but I haven't experienced it yet with a single man that I have talked to.