Finished with ex and NOW months later my sex drive is hyper

[Cheeseandonionwotsits]

It's so bloody typical. I'm in my 40's so not sure if it's the start of peri but I am thinking about sex non stop!
I have absolutely no one to act this out on, obviously I pleasure myself but I want to make my fantasies into reality.

I'm not regretting breaking up with my bf but we were together for years and I never felt like this.

I've posted on the 30day thread about how to go and meet like minded people as I literally only had my ex bf and his friends.

So how does one go and find people on same wavelength?

POF

So you’re the wet dream of every single man (and many of the married ones) over about 35 - I’d be amazed if you had trouble finding someone to scratch your itch 😂
Mind you - if you do actually eat cheese and onion wotsits- that might be enough to put me off!

Go to the Love Honey or Ann Summers website and treat yourself. Casual sex us usually shit. It's not worth the bother. If you want to find someone or make friends then do activities you enjoy and you'll meet people through that.

im not looking to date so wont be trying OLD.
I think @BlueRin5eBrigade you have it spot on, I have to get out of my comfort zone and join a group. I haven't ever had casual sex as have been in long term relationships for years. But I think it's time I dabbled and got myself a fwb. Let's hope I choose the right kind of club!

@Bittenonce that did make me laugh. Unfortunately no one in real life knows about my desires and kinks so no I am not every man's wet dream 😆

Be careful a sudden rush of libido can be a fertility surge lock in your protection!

Cycling clubs, running club, rambling club are all full of men. Alternatively you could try taking up martial art.

@BlueRin5eBrigade somehow I don’t think that a rambling club is really what she’s looking for 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Did you stop taking contraception?

Maybe a 'ramble' in the woods is just what I need 🤣

Have never took contraception, always used the pull out method, in the 30 years I've been sexually active it seems to have worked for me. Some might call that irresponsible I know!

Lots of people use OLD for casual hookups. As long as you're straight with what you're looking for, everything's good. A single woman genuinely looking for 'nothing serious' on OLD will have plenty of choice. Or use one of the more casual dating apps.

I'd say the easiest way is definitely OLD. If you make sure your profile says what you want, you will have 100s of possibilities to sift through!

We really do need that laugh emoji back 😂😂😂😂

Maybe it was a typo 😂 rumbling club?