Leaving husband

[Phone43]

I am thinking about ending my marriage because my husband has cheated on me and is abusive to me and is lazy doesn't work or do anything in the house while I am working 2 jobs and my mum takes the kids to school and picks them up

That’s very brave @Phone43but based on what you have said is the best idea - you, the kids and your mum deserve so much more! Can I ask whose house it is? Do you think he will leave?

How long has he been cheating on you? How did you find out?

Don't think about it @Phone43 get on and do it. You'll be better off on your own that with a workshy, unfaithful man

Don’t just think about it, do it. I can’t see what he brings to the relationship !

@Phone43 why are you putting up with husband? What kind of relationship do you want? Something where he does what he likes when he likes how he likes? Be brave and with your mums support and others move on..✊🏿

That sounds like a good idea. Are you looking for emotional support or practical help?

It's in both and he has refused to move out

I saw messaged on his phone it's been going on since September the 10th Last year on our anniversary

I don't think anyone would say you are unreasonable to do this.

I would start legal proceedings to sell the house and get divorced.

How old are the kids