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Paused/hidden profile on Hinge - cheating?

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mapmymayhem · 12/06/2025 08:58

Why would a man pause his profile on hinge effectively hiding it but still be matching and messaging women?
I can only think if they are married or with someone and cheating or can you think of a plausible reason that would discount this theory?

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teenmaw · 12/06/2025 09:29

I used to do this. When I was new to old I didn’t want everyone to know, my ex to see me, people looking at my profile while I was going about my day…I wasn’t comfortable with the whole thing really

mapmymayhem · 12/06/2025 09:37

thank you so maybe not that suspicious then.

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BeerAndMusic · 12/06/2025 11:52

Could be because they have had a couple of dates with someone so seeing how that goes rather than delete profile and start again if it doesnt work

FutureCatMum · 12/06/2025 17:01

It could be as simple as he’s away with work and doesn’t want to match in the area he’s in for a day or two. This is why I pause my profile temporarily. Or that he’s had dates and is waiting to see if it will turn into something. If you’re a match it keeps those on most sites though?

sprinklesandshines · 12/06/2025 17:04

I used to pause/hide my tinder when I was in the early stages of seeing someone (e.g date 3/4)

Basically because I didn’t want to have to redo my whole profile if it didn’t work out, but I’d got a good feeling about the guy I was seeing so didn’t want my profile to be visible to other guys.

I would’ve deleted my profile when we had the exclusive talk, for me that’s a month or so in.

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