Cheating

[Rainbow988]

Do you think you would know if your husband is cheating after 30 years+

You’ll know if things aren’t right. I think you’ll probably know - and part of your brain will block it? But I’ve been on both sides of the table with this so I probably am fairly well tuned to it

What makes you think he is? Could there be other explanations maybe?

No, I don't I would TBH.
Why do you ask?

Yep I think you would ….
Mentionitis
Phone secrecy
A skip in his step
Humming and singing before he goes to work .
Gym
New clothes
Belittling you
Liking new music/ tv series /films
Offering opinions that seem at odds with his previously held ones .
A general air of ‘Offness’
Yes I think you would know after 30 years you are extremely tuned into each other . Instinct / gut reaction call it what you will but you would know .

I didn’t know, but I was picking up on a different vibe.