Partner following women on Tiktok and Instagram

[Mandseven]

I found out my partner was following women on Tiktok and Instagram. When I confronted him he said he wasn't actively following them and didn't know how he came to be doing so. Of course I don't believe him. He has deleted them now. He was also liking a womans pics on facebook ( only the ones of her usually showing off her cleavage) but never followed me on facebook or liked my pics. We have been together 17 years and I feel very betrayed by him. Am I unreasonable?

Haven't you already posted this either yesterday or this morning?

Great another social media post. There seems to be a lot of these recently.

if you don’t trust him end the relationship.

he may have followed some, some may be bits following him using his algorithms.

Either way; it’s not real life, he’s with you and not them. It’s not ‘wanking material ‘ as some have suggested in previous threads, I have reels on my insta primarily of scantily clad women, yet I rarely go on social media. I am also ‘following’ a number of models/pretty women even though I have never actively followed them.

Instagram knows I am a 40 year old heterosexual male, so they purposely put these ads and reels in front of me to draw me in.