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Help me find a signifant other for deeper communication

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Tote2012cm · 28/05/2025 22:54

*need your expertise... so in the last month or so my hus and i broke up/ separated, so

Anyhow i think he met a particular someone through tinder or something. So basically hes almost gone no comm. Its been so tough.

My question to you is since its been 15+ yrs since i sought dating etc before him where should i begin ?

If im shy what platform would i use thats safe, nearly free or low cost. I need a place to find connection.

I actually despise not having that special someone daily to share things with etc.

Not even sure what i want right now but at least a daily concerned good friend with semi deep connection might be ideal.

What do you think

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SnowflakeSmasher86 · 28/05/2025 22:58

Its been less than a month?!

I’d suggest taking 5 minutes to work on building your own life rather than jumping straight into a new relationship!

S0j0urn4r · 28/05/2025 23:40

Agree with pp.
It's best to take some time and figure out what you want out of life.
You need a thick skin for OLD. Not the best thing if you're feeling vulnerable.

outerspacepotato · 29/05/2025 00:03

You can safely share with a therapist.

Some rando off a dating site, probably not a good idea.

TheSandgroper · 29/05/2025 00:36

Learn to live on your own and be comfortable and happy with it. This is the most important skill to have in life.

DO NOT think that that whatever himself is doing is a good thing and that you must emulate it. That’s just asking for more trouble.

Tote2012cm · 30/05/2025 01:10

Thank you everyone its me the poster appreciate everyone taking the time, appreciate the suggestions and guidance

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