Waitress only acknowledges DP

[bumblebubble23]

would you be annoyed by a waitress at your local pub, only seeming to acknowledge your DP when greeting ? We both attend the pub a similar amount to each other I go every other Wednesday, he goes once a week after work for a pint. We both take our children together every sort of 5/6 for a meal there as well.

I've had this happen before but only during the time we were there having a meal. The waitress never looked at me or engaged with me, only my partner. Did annoy me.

It’s very annoying!

What happens when you go in without him on Wednesdays?

Ha, my next door but one neighbour does this. I just completely ignore her all the time now.

I deal with incidents like this by getting right up in their grill with a ricktus grin and saying hi! in a very jolly tone - forcing them to acknowledge me.

Just get a bit of smile and serves if she’s on the bar, she’s a lot younger than us we’re 36 she’s around 24/5 ish.

Maybe she fancies him. Maybe she doesn’t like you. Maybe she’s conditioned to smile and appease men above women because we live in a shitty patriarchal society and she wants the approval of men.

Maybe she thinks he’s more likely to tip than you.

Maybe he chats with her when he's in for a pint and she knows & likes him better.

It's not an issue if she does fancy him, if you can trust your partner.

Happens all the time my DH is gorgeous but he doesn't notice them flirting 🤣

I would think bit odd for 2 seconds and move on