We had a girls night out on Friday and I was shocked at the behaviour of some of my friends. We are all mid 30s and married so it was a rare opportunity for us to let our hair down and have some fun together just us without our partners. So ofcourse we drank and danced and made the most of it. But some friends used their partners not being there as an opportunity to do what I consider cheating. They were happy to dance with other guys. I mean ‘dance’ getting very handsy and grinding and grabbing all sorts of places. Two friends went out to the smoking area with two guys and asked us not to come with them. They came back about 30 mins later so god knows what they got up to out there. There’s plenty more that happened and they did but I’m not going to give every detail. We had a good night but overall I was just shocked at how open some friends were with what they were doing. So is cheating really becoming the norm or are some of my friends just shitty people?