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They contact me

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Minidaisy · 05/05/2025 21:04

There is a guy who is an acquaintance. I was a good ear for a long time as he had an ongoing ASB issue. The problem is he only contacts now to moan about anything. I cut him off earlier and said think positive and have a nice evening as I was going out. I wasn’t going out but don’t need the moaning. I also know another woman who only contacts when her employer upsets her or an ailment flares up.

They don’t respect me and only contact me to moan, I bet they don’t moan to others. How do you cut people’s negativity off? I don’t dump my baggage on others. It’s getting me down. Why do they think it’s only them going through things, so selfish.

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Mrsmouse71 · 05/05/2025 21:36

Keep cutting them off, leave longer to respond to messages. Or just ask them if they’re just going to moan again…

S0j0urn4r · 05/05/2025 21:59

Screen your calls.

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