Sleeping in bed with husband after a year

[ZippyLimeBear]

My husband and I have been sleeping in separate beds for over a year since I was heavily pregnant with my son, so we could take turns with night wakes and get more sleep.

Now I want to get back in the same bed as I think it’s important to our marriage, but I’m finding it really uncomfortable! I’ve become used to a big bed on my own and it’s hard to go back!

Has anyone experienced this? Can we get used to sleeping with each other again?!

What size bed do you have?

King

Get a super king

King x

We did this when I was heavily pregnant to. It’s been 7 years and still sleep separately and I think it’s great 😂

If you can, super king zip and link so that you each have a single bed sized mattress to yourself and because they are separate mattresses you don't feel your Dh turn over anywhere near as much as a shared mattress. Usual questions, can you feel the zip? No, there is the normal piping edge to the mattress and the zip is just below that. We do however have a quilted mattress topper on.

Have you tried using single duvets instead of one big one?

We did this when we had a king size bed and it made such a difference.

Even better if you have room for a superking.

Me too and I’ve got a super king size bed.

I don’t think it takes long to get used to it, and also I like to avoid being woken up by the slightest sound or movement if I can help it.