Handhold please just found ex partner cheating

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Hey I’m pregnant athough just took the first abortion pill after finding out my boyfriend had a girlfriend. I don’t have instagram my friend loooked him up on there out of noisiness and he’s tagged in loads of photos on a girls profile.
I’m around 8 weeks pregnant and luckily I went and got the abortion pills around 2 weeks ago but he kept saying how I would be evil to abort his baby and he’d never look at me the same so I choose not to take them.

last night my phone rang with my friend telling and I decided to take the pill and block all contact. Just led with my thoughts really in shock at how he’s been begging me to keep a baby whilst having another girlfriend I honestly don’t know what he was expecting in 9 months. So shocked.

I’m so sorry this has happened to you OP, I hope you can be gentle with yourself and have support around you. Stay well away from him from now on he sounds like a horror.

I’m so sorry. He’s a shit. Try and take the best care of yourself as you’re going through a lot of both emotional & physical stuff. Sending you lots of love 💐

Oh I will I blocked him sent screenshots to the girl he’s with and I deleted everything to do with him just in such a shock can’t believe I nearly kept a baby whilst all this was going on. I’m not a very social media person and I’m more angry that it feels we can’t be like that then I am about the cheating although It might not have kicked in yet.

I'm really sorry to hear he turned out to be a lying cheating scumbag and thankfully you found out quick enough to not end up tied to him with a baby you weren't sure you wanted.

yes I feel like the universe sent me a gift but that a probably my very hormonal way of thinking of it. I’m so shocked at how he was coming to mine I broke up with him last week and he was crying begging for me back like just soo shocked at how he has acted and to beg soemone to keep a baby I’ve had a stillborn like it was huge for me to do all this is so evil I’m just shocked at the evil in some people

Be so glad you will never have to have anything further to do with such scum again.

Well done in being clear in your decision.
So many women bitterly regret their indecision at this time.

You will move forward.
Do the www.freedomprogramme.co.uk to help you establish stronger boundaries to help spot hortors like him.