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Needhelp124 · 15/04/2025 14:19

Hi I'm not sure where to begin if anyone is on this I guess I want to chat with someone to see there point of view or if I'm just going crazy lol I have been suspicious of my husband cheating the last few months he had been very distant and acting more suspicious with his phone etc which there was messages from other girls at work tho there was nothing harmful in the messages at the time but then after me bringing them up they were deleted and anytime I looked at phone they were deleted was just empty chat so I then went down putting a old phone and recorded his Time at work now I will be honest the recorder was terrible quality but some things with earphones could be heard it did sound like cheating obviously I then confronted and was told that's not what happened and I just don't know if I'm over thinking everything and then this can be ruining my relationship of constant accusations or is it happening and I'm spot on and getting lied to

OP posts:
Maitri108 · 15/04/2025 14:33

OP if you've got to the point where you're constantly checking someone's phone and recording them at at work then you need to finish the relationship as it's very unhealthy.

Needhelp124 · 15/04/2025 14:34

I hear ya but we have been together over 20 years now and I just don't know if we've gotten distant or there is cheating I do know that it is absolutely driving me crazy

OP posts:
Maitri108 · 15/04/2025 14:35

Needhelp124 · 15/04/2025 14:34

I hear ya but we have been together over 20 years now and I just don't know if we've gotten distant or there is cheating I do know that it is absolutely driving me crazy

It certainly is OP.

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