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Want to do/buy something special for bf's 50th birthday... Stuck for ideas..

16 replies

nancy9966 · 31/03/2025 13:04

Just that really.
We've been together 2 years, don't live together and only get to meet every few weeks (due to work commitments and kids etc).
Bf always buys such thoughtful presents for me, really useful things that he knows I need.
Really struggling with ideas of what do do or buy him for his 50th. He pretty much has everything!
I'm on a budget so unfortunately lots of things are out of the question.
Help me with some ideas please!

OP posts:
Rocknrollstar · 31/03/2025 13:25

Weather station
Dash cam
Bottle of good scotch or brandy
Nice gloves
Cashmere socks

LikeMindedLady · 31/03/2025 13:34

Is he adventurous? Why not pick an activity that he'll remember, book him a skydive or an F1 track day or tickets to see his favourite band?

Bittenonce · 31/03/2025 18:11

LikeMindedLady · 31/03/2025 13:34

Is he adventurous? Why not pick an activity that he'll remember, book him a skydive or an F1 track day or tickets to see his favourite band?

This - and I'd make it an activity or holiday together. If it were me and you bought socks, it would be game over.

ThisUniqueDreamer · 31/03/2025 19:19

I think a lot of you have missed the fact that she is on a budget and she won't be affording adventure holidays.

It's very difficult to suggest presence without knowing much about him. What does he like? Does he have any hobbies?

Needmorelego · 31/03/2025 19:24

What are his interests?
I am turning 50 soon.
I want some Lego and a few secondhand books I have seen online (cheap ones that are about 3 quid).
I don't want an "experience" or anything similar.
It's hard to recommend something when we have no clue what he is into.

foghead · 31/03/2025 19:26

What’s your budget?

Coffeeishot · 31/03/2025 19:28

What does he like, and what is your budget?

ThatWriterInTheCorner · 31/03/2025 19:55

What is your rough budget? Escape rooms can be a great experience without having to spend a fortune. Or a fancy picnic for the two of you somewhere nice, with champagne and strawberries?

BeerAndMusic · 01/04/2025 00:09

Budget and interests needed.

For me (50, male) I would like a weekend away (not needing to be loads, you can do a day out in a foreign city with Ryanair for 40each return (even leave early and come back same day), or a hotel for a night away.

caringcarer · 01/04/2025 02:00

Is he into sports? You can get football stadium tours that don't cost the earth.

Rainbowqueeen · 01/04/2025 03:24

Something related to the year he was born?

If he's into cars, rent a classic car for a day and pack a picnic. Plan a route that involves stopping at the type of places he likes for morning and afternoon tea or a walk.

TerrorAustralis · 01/04/2025 03:30

Tell us about him, otherwise you’ll just get generic man-gift ideas.

What are his hobbies and interests? What does he spend his free time doing? Does he read or listen to music? If he was given a chunk of cash to spend on himself, what do you think he would buy? Are there things you know he likes, but would never buy for himself?

Rocknrollstar · 01/04/2025 06:43

Buy some really sexy underwear and model it next time you meet up

ApolloandDaphne · 01/04/2025 06:48

My DH is the man who has everything. He likes a nice single malt or a bottle of good red wine. He also likes a spa voucher so he can get a massage or a voucher for a golf lesson.

Tbrh · 01/04/2025 06:55

Nice watch or wallet or casual briefcase/filofax type thing. Or else an experience like driving a Ferrari or helicopter

Tbrh · 01/04/2025 06:55

Rocknrollstar · 01/04/2025 06:43

Buy some really sexy underwear and model it next time you meet up

And this!

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