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Controlling hookup? Or am I overthinking?

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Briannaivy · 29/03/2025 06:01

So I hooked up with one guy… I hooked up with him the first time last year. We’ve only had sëx twice. Anyways the second time we hooked up was when I went home with him after the club. We had sëx, knowing me I didn’t even want to spend the night even though it was like 2am in the morning. After we did the due I woke up at like 6am trying to sneak out cause he was sleep.

He woke up and begged me to go back to sleep with him, asked me if I had work or something? I replied saying no. He said then come back to bed. I agreed I slept for like two more hours with him and then I tried to leave again. Y’all this man did not want me to leave? Despite it being the next morning at 10am? He got upset that I called my Uber cause I wanted to go home?

I’m thinking this is causal we didn’t have anything else going on prior to this, we’ve only been talking off and on for about a year… I don’t want him in that way and I thought that was the case vise versa?

He then called me the next day and asked me where I was driving to ? It was like 4pm at this time, I told him I was going over a friends. He told me to go home because it was to late to go over a friends house? Then followed it up with saying he was just joking?

Since then I’ll occasionally post pictures of myself and he’ll always slide up asking me where I’m at? I don’t mind casual with him because I only see him as casual but am I able to just be casual with him? I’m not looking for a controlling FWB.

He also seen how many men liked my post on social media when I was at his house, he tried to grab my phone and see all the likes I received?

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ChesterFoxE · 29/03/2025 06:35

Block. Move on. End of.

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