I very rarely go on DH phone , but asked after dinner as my phone was dead and had to quickly check something that I had to bring to work for tomorrow via email. He was busy putting kids to bed upstairs. I finished sorting what I needed for work so I quickly went on photos as I like to look and see old baby photos of DC stored on his phone.
To my surprise a picture of a naked woman was saved on ‘recently added’ section of photos. What’s weird is the date at the top was April 2012. It also had an arrow pointing down with a timer icon on it. Dates of when photos are taken are shown on the top, but this photo was saved in 2012, but at the same time was in the recently added section? I also quickly saw before he came down that the photo (which seemed to be from a porn site) was saved from DuckDuckGo.
Porn is a big no in our marriage, and we’ve been having intimacy issues for a very long time. I thought we were in a better place now though so have no idea why that photo was on there. I once accidentally saw ‘web cam chat’ thing come up on his computer years ago. He said it must have been one of those pop up things that come up as he was using music forum and guys sometimes post things like that, or it’s sometimes on there. Now I’m beginning to wonder if that was true.
I don’t know if he’s saved naked photos of women in a secret place as it’s from 2012 , which he decided to download and forgot to delete. Photos can’t just accidentally appear on a phone? He must have gone to a porn site, and downloaded it or been sent it from someone? It doesn’t make sense to me. He doesn’t know I’ve seen it, and I left it on there.