Relationships

[11Turtle]

Hi, my boyfriend of damn near 10 years consistently belittles me and makes up false accusations about me so that he can do whatever he pleases and blames me . He literally told me today I lied about the flow my of period to not have sex with him and he knows I’m talking to someone else! Meanwhile, last week he was bleeding from his penis and didn’t bother to go to the doctor or really find out what that what about. Today, he found an excuse to go stay gone for 5 hours because we went to grocery store and I told him to pick out what he wanted and he got mad at me and started throwing things in the basket telling me thank God he went to drink before we went to the store because he knew I was goin to be acting up. Is this me or what?

Dump him, he's not treating you well - none of this is ok

Of course it's not you.
Why do you put up with this horrible behaviour?

I’m so upset at myself and the fact that I have 2 young sons with him! 7 and 2! I’m so very annoyed to where I literally don’t speak at all when he’s in my presence whether he’s asking me where is the Clorox I do not respond because of all the nonsense. I’m currently trying to figure out how to move out in silence with my boys at least by the beginning of next month. I’m over it for real. This is too much. I’m just like why does this happen every other day!