When ever we have a disagreement he says “you know I’m right” or “you know what you’re saying is wrong”.
If I try and pull him up on a behaviour he says “I did it because that’s what you do”…..turns it around on me, even when I know for a fact I haven’t done it.
He tells me off like a child for butting in, I do have ADHD and I do occasionally butt in but it’s usually because it’s something he’s told me several times already (he tells me the same stories over and over). He then stops me and says “wait I’m talking” and puts his finger up to my face until he’s finished talking.
My gut is telling me this is narcissistic behaviour? But my ASHD tells me I’m the problem. It is narcissistic isn’t it?