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Girlfriend angry that I'm free

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ByWildSloth · 13/03/2025 16:31

This weekend my GF had asked me if I was free on Saturday to go to the London with her and some of her friends that are visiting. I told her that I was helping my parents on Saturday and couldn't.

Yesterday they rescheduled for next week. I was excited and called her, but she was very off and angry from the get go, saying her friends have specific plans and why I didn't tell her I could've been off , even mentioning a day that I spent alone from her because it was my sister's birthday (we went to a football match together alone).
My gf later apologized for her outburst, but didn't ask or resolve the weekend, just left it that she's going without me. I understand giving space, but something just felt off about it all, I'm never rude or mean to her, am I over reacting or just too soft? She is also from China and perhaps wanted less of a interpreter role that day?

OP posts:
Idontjetwashthefucker · 13/03/2025 16:41

You posted yesterday about you inviting yourself along when she was due to meet her Chinese friends, and you weren't invited

ByWildSloth · 13/03/2025 16:45

Why would she ask if I was off that day? Perhaps misconstrued something?

OP posts:
Idontjetwashthefucker · 13/03/2025 16:47

ByWildSloth · 13/03/2025 16:45

Why would she ask if I was off that day? Perhaps misconstrued something?

No idea, your story has changed since you posted yesterday

Josiezu · 13/03/2025 16:49

ByWildSloth · 13/03/2025 16:45

Why would she ask if I was off that day? Perhaps misconstrued something?

So are you saying she didn’t ask you to join?

Idontjetwashthefucker · 13/03/2025 16:56

Your other thread is still on here 'girlfriend troubles' why did you start another with different details? Is it because the first one painted you in a bad light so now you're trying to make out she's the bad guy?

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