I think Im a lesbian

[Chelsea2026]

Recently i have been having thoughts that I could be a lesbian! never been attracted to women until the last few months! There are a couple of friends who I am attracted to but they are both married. What should i do next? (I'm in a long term relationship with a man but there are major cracks in the relationship)

Google the Lesbian Masterdoc, many people find it helpful. Otherwise resolve your exisiting relationship and let the dust settle first.

Thank you I will have a look - I agree that i will need the dust to settle first before meeting a girl

are there any lesbians on here

You don’t really need to do anything different to if you were attracted to other men and your relationship was on the rocks. There’s no club you need to sign up to or anything.

1. End your relationship if that’s what you’ve decided.
2. Look to meet new people (but obviously not the ones you’ve mentioned who are married).

My friends who are married have told me they are pleased that I am lesbian as they are bi! they have suggested a girlie night out next weekend (which might be "interesting")

End the cracked relationship and spend some time alone getting to know who you are.

Presumably many! Me included.

Don’t go there.