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Signs in RL

4 replies

Strang3butTru3 · 05/03/2025 09:20

Advice or opinions

Common signs a women is cheating or having a affair??
If you have experienced or been in that position.

OP posts:
StumbleInTheDebris · 05/03/2025 09:32

Why is "a women" a common typo in some posters here? Noticed it on other boards.

BubbleGumOnShoe · 05/03/2025 09:34

I have never cheated or had an affair. I have had a previous partner who was convinced that I was. Once he followed me because he was so sure. I went for a meal with my aunt! When we got there, he hung around outside and continued to watch me even though it was clear that I actually was not having an affair after all (he knew my aunt and there we were!).
I don’t know this is a difficult question. I have been cheated on by a man and I imagine it’s similar. Real change in how he behaved towards me, kind of a switch off in the emotional connection, nitpicking and starting arguments and then disappearing off out. But the emotional disconnect was the most notable thing. I imagine everyone is different and it’s going to very much depend on the woman involved. Truthfully, I think each situation and person is unique. I hope that you discover that there is nothing and can have a healthy relationship that is full of respect and trust.

Nooa · 05/03/2025 09:51

Short of finding concrete evidence, there is no definite sign that could not also be explained by a myriad of other things.

ICanTellYouMissMe · 05/03/2025 09:53

Changes their look, loses weight etc
On their phone a lot
Spending time with new people doing new things

In my experience

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