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What to suggest ?

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ChicFinch · 23/02/2025 11:08

This guy I'm with has cancelled 3 times now last minute when I’m ready. Last month because he was babysitting his brothers kids and forgot then because he wasn't well all week but made plans with me then said he still wasn't well. Then because his daughter has to go to a&e. I have seen him multiple times in between this cancellations that makes it more confusing

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Mog65 · 23/02/2025 11:17

Being ill and his daughter being in A&E seriously you'd expect to see him. YABU, His kids will always come first. I suggest you get use to it. Babysitting his brothers kids, might have been an excuse! If you've seen him lots then he's obviously keen. But you definitely need to lighten up.

Notaboutthebass · 23/02/2025 11:17

First one is terrible, how can he forget? Second one he may be telling you truth, people get ill and take a while to recover (especially this year) A&E might be true but you can't accuse of it not being but all 3 together-unlikely!

How long have you been together?

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