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Do I continue to message him?

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fawwnesque · 19/02/2025 20:29

I’ve been talking to this cute nerdy guy, he’s in college and i’m starting college this fall so we’re both pretty young but i’m like really into him, he matches my vibe, is such a sweetheart but the only problem is sometimes he goes hours, even a day without answering me. It’s kind of push and pull because once we do get talking it’s like we can’t stop but once the flow does stop it’s hard to get it back going. I think i’m overthinking it because why would someone continue to heavily flirt even after a couple of hours without communication. I could just use some advice!

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Sodthesystem · 19/02/2025 20:41

Chill out.
It's normal to go a day or two without talking.

Put the phone down before he thinks you're a nutter who needs constant attention. Seriously op, you do know people have a life right?

Also, read up on love bombing and how to spot narcissists (narcissistic personality disorder) before you go to uni. It might save your ass from fake men and bad friends. Not to say he is either.
But no one should be tied to their phone 24/7.

You're sounding distinctly bunny boiler atm. Give the guy some space. It's college too, he'll be seeing other women.

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