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Massage parlours

17 replies

FlorenceB19 · 16/02/2025 15:39

Why would a married man visit a Thai massage parlour secretly?

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wizzywig · 16/02/2025 15:39

For the happy ending

EVHead · 16/02/2025 15:39

Sexual favours.

username299 · 16/02/2025 15:40

He's discovered a hidden gem and doesn't want it to get swamped?

OhSpringisintheair · 16/02/2025 15:45

You have started a few threads OP about your DP and Thai massage.
I think you must know why he is interested in Thai masseuse by now.

FlorenceB19 · 16/02/2025 15:52

OhSpringisintheair · 16/02/2025 15:45

You have started a few threads OP about your DP and Thai massage.
I think you must know why he is interested in Thai masseuse by now.

Very true...

I did confront him... & he obviously denied it being that kind of massage!! 🤔

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FlorenceB19 · 16/02/2025 15:53

How would you know if it's legitimate or not?

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MintTwirl · 16/02/2025 15:54

Tell him you fancy booking in for a massage at the same place.

username299 · 16/02/2025 15:59

FlorenceB19 · 16/02/2025 15:52

Very true...

I did confront him... & he obviously denied it being that kind of massage!! 🤔

Yeah, men who are in relationships and visit sex workers tend to deny it.

RhubarbThumb · 16/02/2025 16:01

FlorenceB19 · 16/02/2025 15:39

Why would a married man visit a Thai massage parlour secretly?

For the prostituting.

Purplecatshopaholic · 16/02/2025 16:01

I presume you know why. Your husband is cheating on you. Sorry op.

RhubarbThumb · 16/02/2025 16:01

FlorenceB19 · 16/02/2025 15:52

Very true...

I did confront him... & he obviously denied it being that kind of massage!! 🤔

So why did he hide it in the first place.

RhubarbThumb · 16/02/2025 16:02

FlorenceB19 · 16/02/2025 15:53

How would you know if it's legitimate or not?

There's websites that review places and workers. Just search for the name "Thai Family Massage, Basil Town" or whatever

MintTwirl · 16/02/2025 16:03

You could also ask on a local Facebook group if anyone recommends that parlour, I imagine the responses you get will tell you everything you need to know.

GabbySolisX · 16/02/2025 16:04

Can you not message them saying “Hi, it’s me John, I came in on such & such day. Really enjoyed my massage. Can you give me the name of the lady who gave me the happy ending again last week so I can rebook with the same one, for the same time again this fri? Thanks” and see what they say? 😂

category12 · 16/02/2025 16:06

So they can get a divorce.

Bumblebeestiltskin · 16/02/2025 16:47

Are you happy that your husband is a cheat who visits prostitutes? If so, carry on making posts. If not, divorce him.

HermioneWeasley · 16/02/2025 16:53

I go for reputable Thai massages regularly. It’s insulting to suggest they’re all brothels in disguise. But the fact he’s keeping it secret is what’s dodgy.

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