Ex husband - separated for two years. Minimal contact surrounding children only. Abusive with infidelity but the eternal victim. Manipulated everyone and continues to. I always have to bite my tongue. Last year I received a red emblazoned letter with Vehicle Safety Recall on it and his name - I immediately passed the letter on thinking it was serious and potentially dangerous. His car was still registered to the home address.
Today I took my car to the dealer as an engine light was flashing. The dealer was aghast - this car should have been in with me last year - it is dangerous to drive due to a fire risk and has a safety recall to repair. The letter had been for my car (my car is registered in his name) and my ex husband hadn’t told me! Why?! My first thought was for his and my children’s safety!