Advice

[margaret100]

im after any advice on this matter, i turned on my partners notifications in his phone , hes usually ok with me touching his phone as he touches my phone as well , after i turned on the notifications there was pop ups from flirt and date in your area , milf , a dating website with his profile picture on it , after confronting him with this he said he had started to get these emails through ( i had noticed he was a bit more secretive with his phone) , he blamed this on other people saying it was not him he has not been on these sites , he had hidden this from me for weeks until i found it , i realised he started getting these pop ups after i turned on the notifications , so im guessing within the last few months he has been visiting these sites hence the pop ups , or could this just be spam any help would be appreciated

im sorry but the accounts are his and he made them. He is looking elsewhere.

You don't trust him or you wouldn't be checking his phone. Does he have form?

He's on dating sites looking for sex. Some could be porn pop ups, MILF is a porn category.

I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who was actively looking for women to have sex with.

username299 does he have form ? we are open with our phones ive nothing to hide

thing is he goes to work early at 6.45am and rings me every night on his way home til he gets home , he gets 1 day off a week , he lives with me i spend my day with him when he's off , he does'nt go out with mates or any night of the week , maybe to his mams which i can check so he's using this as a sort of alibi
i dont know where he would get the time which is what he keeps saying , when i checked the chat and date in your area website it was set to southampton he lives in the north so he said how could i meet someone i cant just pop to southampton so its all too confusing

They can always find time. Lots of escorts offer 15/30 min bookings. You can be in and out faster than a trip to the shops

Even if he hasn't cheated he is looking elsewhere and thinking about it. He's set up a dating profile ffs! He's untrustworthy.

OP Clinton ran a superpower and was a sex addict. If someone wants to cheat, they'll find the time.

Whether he's cheating or not, he's actively on dating sites looking for other women so it's only a matter of time. I'm surprised he doesn't have a burner phone.