Hi everyone, I have joined this app in a attempt to get some advice as I have no one else to turn to due to embarrassment.
My and my partner have been together 5 years, the relationship is great but the sex is now non-existent. He always wants to kiss and cuddle but no sex.
I can't help but feel very Insecure about this, I feel like he finds me unattractive now. Going up one dress sizs makes me feel even worse as I feel like it's all started when I had noticeable weight gain. Although I do like the weight gain as its mainly gone on my thighs/bum/boobs. I can't help but think this is the cause.
When I ask him he denies this and when I say about we don't have sex he always apologises and says we will tomorrow but tomorrow never comes.
I now feel too embarrassed to initiate sex with him and I told him I feel like we are friends, he just disagrees.
He use to want to rip my clothes off as soon as we got in, and every morning he use to wake up with a erection wanting it but now I can't even remember the last time he has a erection around me.
Please is this normal for relationships?
Thanks