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OLD Green and Red Flags

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Leafy74 · 22/12/2024 19:43

Single again in my 50s and looking to date.
I've joined a few clubs, nothing seems to come of it romance wise. I suspect many of the other women in these clubs are doing the same!
I'm moving online. Never done OLD before and am braced for some awful dates!
If you've done OLD could you give me your top green flags and red flags.Thanks!

OP posts:
Addictedtohotbaths · 22/12/2024 19:50

Red flags - talks about themselves too much. Doesn’t ask you any questions, doesn’t say much / anything when you do talk.

Green flags - wants to get to know who you are / what you’re interested in / what you like, actively listens and remembers / refers back later on.

Leafy74 · 22/12/2024 19:57

Good ones!
Thank you.

OP posts:
username299 · 22/12/2024 20:18

Looks like their photo
On time
Interested in you
Has hobbies and interests
Interesting and makes you laugh

Red flags
Talks about sex
Has a crazy ex
Has a problem with women
Gets drunk
Complains
Self absorbed
Deadbeat dad
Tight

BeenThere101 · 22/12/2024 20:20

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