Divorcing and in mediation to sort out finances. I've realised there's been a lot of emotional manipulation in my marriage and stbxh is now using it in our mediation sessions. Any suggestions how to deal with this? He's saying he has massive stress and anxiety from the divorce proceedings and his job, and he doesn't know how he is going to afford to live. I've grey rocked over the 18 months, but he's ramped up again now he has an audience. I feel it looks like I'm a heartless bxtch sitting there not reacting while he appears to be falling apart.