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He's still in touch with ex

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umbrellasusie · 15/12/2024 13:01

Found messages on dh phone from
His ex. The messages were from three months ago. No other messages were found.

For background, dh had an emotional affair with ex years ago, didn't last long and I know everything. It was mainly texting and phone calls. This was seven years ago.

In the messages his ex says she still harbours feelings for him and asked if he felt the same and he said he wanted to just be friends.
She said she couldn't continue with the friendship whilst she felt this way for him and he said he would always be there for her.
Looks like no contact since.

I don't really know what to think.
I can see on Facebook her name is in the search bar. They aren't friends on Facebook.

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teenmaw · 15/12/2024 13:21

Sounds like she's made an advance and he's told her to fuck off. Not ideal he didn't tell you but he probably didn't want to rock the boat. It's not the worst IMO

umbrellasusie · 15/12/2024 13:34

I think he Facebook stalks her all the time. He shut her down but still wants to be in touch on a surface level. Even when he tells me they aren't in touch, they are.

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