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DP work party

15 replies

korinkk · 13/12/2024 21:40

Would you feel uncomfortable if your boyfriend of 8 months was going on a work Xmas do (at a bar), that was only him and 7 or 8 single women, even if you trusted him?

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ItOnlyTakesTwoMinutes · 13/12/2024 21:41

Yes

StarrySquawk · 13/12/2024 21:44

Yes, if it's his colleagues I wouldn't have an issue, and even so for a boyfriend of 8 months it's up to them what they do.

If you have an issue with it you may want to reassess what you want your future relationship to be. Unless he's a known cheat there's no issue.

BESTAUNTB · 13/12/2024 21:47

I’d be fine with 8 single women. Less fine with 1 tbh.

korinkk · 13/12/2024 21:49

It's interesting to hear others thoughts. I do trust him but for some reason it makes me feel uneasy!

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TwistedWonder · 13/12/2024 21:50

It’s a Christmas works do not a gang bang. He works with these women all day long so it’s just an extension of work

RubyRedBow · 13/12/2024 21:51

I wouldn’t mind.

buttonousmaximous · 13/12/2024 21:52

I would feel uncomfortable but would try to trust him

ApolloandDaphne · 13/12/2024 21:52

He will probably be made an honorary woman for the night! There will be no issue.

stanleypops66 · 13/12/2024 21:55

Yeah I'd be fine with it. If that's the make up of his work then it is what it is.

ThatCoralShark · 13/12/2024 21:56

No, if it’s a work Xmas party, he can’t be banned from going to his work party.

Girlmom35 · 13/12/2024 21:57

No problem whatsoever.
Unless he has a history of non-trustworty behavior.

Alittlebitfluffy · 13/12/2024 21:58

I do the reverse due to working in such a male dominant space. So no I'd have no issue, however they are mostly in relationships not single, not that that can make a difference if people have that inclination to cheat or go after someone who is taken.. comes down to whether you trust your partner or not really.

leia24 · 13/12/2024 21:58

Do you think he's shagging them at work? Being 8 of them actually clearly none of them are interested in him or he wouldnt have been single when you met him

Edingril · 13/12/2024 21:59

Yes I let him off the lead somtimes

korinkk · 13/12/2024 21:59

@leia24 That's a very good point!

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