So me n other half don't live together were 11 year's in but he gets really grumpy at special occasions and my granny just passed away and my mum wants to have Xmas dinner with me and I'll cook but my mum likes a christmas drink which he's reminding ne off but it's my mum and am I wrong in telling him my family is what they are?? I'm not forcing him to come I just feel I walk on eggshells with him