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Narcissistic mother and Christmas

3 replies

mamaxbear · 09/12/2024 20:11

I’ve been no contact with my mother since early April. We’ve had minimal contact (nasty messages from her) but this was around July. Anyway with Christmas coming up I’m a little apprehensive about her getting in contact or sending the usual nasty messages. Does anybody else feel like this around this time of year?

OP posts:

rosydreams · 09/12/2024 20:25

save your self keep her at arms length ,write a generic christmas card and leave it at that

i only had to deal with a addict of a father so not as bad but keeping them at arms length better for your health

Gymnopedie · 09/12/2024 21:59

I wouldn't even send a card.

OP if she tries to contact you ignore. Block her so that messages can't get to you.

Put her out of your mind and enjoy Christmas.

stargazerlil · 09/12/2024 22:07

Not any more, I only have contact with one of them and that is strictly just a card. All numbers are blocked.

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