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Charstar1234 · 06/12/2024 20:49

Hi I’ve met this guy from work he’s still living with his ex and his child with her but I really like him but I wanna get to know him even been speaking for months he told me they are fully broken up and now getting back together we spend time together after work but now he’s blocked me off everything and I don’t know why?

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MrsTerryPratchett · 06/12/2024 20:50

he’s still living with his ex and his gf

Some kind of weird throuple?

Charstar1234 · 06/12/2024 20:51

Absolutely not

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 06/12/2024 20:51

I'm guessing it's because he's got a partner and a child maybe?

CandyCaneSpoon · 06/12/2024 20:51

You've been played

RubyRedBow · 06/12/2024 20:52

It’s never a good idea to peruse someone who is living with their ex and child. I don’t believe they’ve split up.

TwistedWonder · 06/12/2024 20:53

He was never actually separated and he’s just used you as a bit of fun would be my guess. Or she’s found out about you and hit the roof.

Steer clear of men who tell you they’re single but still live with their ex - they’re either lying or there’s too much baggage to get involved with.

RubyRedBow · 06/12/2024 20:53

You’ve probably been blocked because she’s found out about you.

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/12/2024 20:53

They're getting back together and he's blocked you. Do you really not know why? It's because he has decided not to cheat on his partner, the mother of his child.

Lighteningstrikes · 06/12/2024 21:49

Through your naivety you’ve got your fingers burnt.
Steer clear from married men, whatever their circumstances.

itsnotalwaysthateasy · 06/12/2024 22:35

You were going to be the booty call...but he got back with the ex.
He saved your ass. I'd suggest giving yourself a very big pat on the back for the very HUGE red flagged arse that you've missed.

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