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Harassment

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ash677x · 20/11/2024 20:10

Posted previously about my ex partner coming into my home last week and harassing me and wouldnt leave. Police warned him off and I've kept my doors locked since.

This morning at 6am I came down and my back gate was lying wide open (wasnt padlocked) , like someone has opened it or been in my garden overnight. I've panicked obviously due to what happened last week and called police. I called my local housing office and they are getting CCTV checked to find out who it was. My ex dropped our child off today and I told him to drop her off front of house as back gate was locked. Explained situation to him and getting cameras checked. When he left, I got an instant message from him saying "Just to let you know I have been nowhere near your house incase you think it was me I'm not that petty"

I dunno somethings telling me it was him and he's clearing his name and panicking cos he's gonna get found out for creeping round my house?? I have severe PTSD from trauma in relationships so of course I think the worst. If it was him, and he's trying to intimidate and scare me!

OP posts:
Beastiesandthebeauty · 20/11/2024 21:00

Did he have your child last night ?
Personally I would have just told him to drop off at the front not gone into the details why. Was the gate padlocked originally?

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