Lived in 3 storey house fir 10 years with dp . He came downstairs tonight and said can you not turn off the middle landing lights so I can see when I come downstairs after my shower . I said to him just come down from the top floor and then turn on middle lights . He screwed up his face and said don’t explain the lights I am not 12 . I said every morning when I go to work I come downstairs with no lights on . He said I had no consideration for him and has now stormed off outside . Aibu ?