I just discovered 'Only Fans" payment on husband's credit card

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I was going through the App on my partner's phone for the credit card we took out a couple of years ago to pay for some large items and I discovered a payment to Onlyfans.com*D GBR for £4.74 then a foreign exchange conversion charge then the "OF" logo and a payment for £18.88.

There's nothing else suspicious on there and it was back in June. WTAF! He's been paying to watch some young woman hasn't he?

I asked him to see the credit card statements a while ago to check the interest rates etc and he was very defensive. Now I know why. Plus he had a real go at me for using the card to pay a £50 MOT fee.

How do I handle this? I'm devastated.

Only fans isn't just porn. Mostly, but not completely.

What do you mean, isn't just porn?

It's deceitful, of course, but also really quite stupid of him on many levels, especially in using a shared credit card.

Yeah he's watched a live I think.

Yes he's been paying for live sexual interaction with other women.
You need to talk to him about this. You have the evidence of the payments if he tries to deny it. You need to have it clear in your head what your boundaries are before you have the conversation.

Only fans is a platform used by other things like musicians, self employed people etc. it's used by sec workers but not exclusively. He could have been accessing something else completely.

Can’t imagine he got much for less than £25.00, if that’s any consolation.

He could be innocent...but given his reluctance to show you bank statements I would guess he isn't innocent...

It's not exclusively sex workers.
But it's a fair assumption that it is in this case, as in a lot of cases.
If it's " innocent" then OP's DH won't mind showing OP his phone and letting her.see his OF account to reassure her.

You're angry he paid to have a wank?