BF

[Angran1]

with BF of 4 yrs. His ex who hr shares a chipd with, doesnt know about me and he wont tell her of fear of causing issues between them. well.today from 8am was messaging him, bloody woke us up ! ..i thought there was a problem with their child...hes is disabled...turms out wanted help shifting a bed...messsging all sodding morning about dump times etc

.blahh.blahhh.....not very happy as she snaps her fingers....he runs.....ive struggled with car loads on my own...
but no.....our day ruinned !

we dont live together..views please

The next time she snaps her fingers, it's your turn to run! 4 years and she doesn't know about you? You deserve better than to be kept as a secret. Don't put up with it. I'd be ending it today.

You need to tell us what else is he bringing into your relationship

After 4 years you’re being kept a secret? Have you met his friends and family?

yes ive met all his family and see them reguarly....he just wont tell.her...majorly upsets me
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How long ago did he split up with her?

we have a lovely relationship..most of the time...ususl things...but this gets me down..

6 years