Is it just me?

[Gemlarr]

Let’s start a group chat here for women who may need support and men who maybe able to shed some light on information.
Why does it seem like it’s hard to have a relationship with men these days. Why do they open up to you and then seem like they panic and disappear? It’s devastating having to open up and be vulnerable to someone new time and time again

What do you open up to them about? If you seem like you have lots of trauma or baggage they may not want to have to deal with it.

They've probably just realised that they aren't going to get sex from you.
I would suggest that you search 'dating apps'. and see that you're not alone.