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IPAD/ ESCORT ADVERT PROFILE

22 replies

Lolla38 · 08/10/2024 21:36

just wanted to ask if anyone else has experienced this or shed some light on this topic.
seeing a Escort site profile not just the front of the website it is actually a person as the link says the age the name you click on it then you have a profile of a woman on a reading page on the IPAD, is this possible it’s appeared in the reading list alone or it more likely someone has blatantly been on this site and saved it for a reason .
I am trying to rack my brains on this while
been told he has no idea how it got there etc, for me personally I don’t see how this can just appear on your reading page if you haven’t physically put it there.
thank you

OP posts:
offyoujollywelltrot · 09/10/2024 02:13

You are being lied to, he went looking for it.

AimieDaisy · 09/10/2024 04:22

Yes, he’s clicked his way there - usually curiously following links from porn sites. I’m sorry. Are you okay?

Angela59 · 09/10/2024 05:47

Having been in the escort business briefly it’s highly unlikely that he knows nothing about how it got there, sorry x

PM me if you wish xx

Shoxfordian · 09/10/2024 05:49

It didn't just magically appear there- he was looking for escorts

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 09:13

Exactly So I am not going insane about all this that is absolutely what happened he would have had to search this for it to appear in his reading on his ipad. Just can’t believe he won’t admit to it when iv caught him out. Iv asked for.a phone bill statement funny how I haven’t received it as yet either .

OP posts:
Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 09:18

offyoujollywelltrot · 09/10/2024 02:13

You are being lied to, he went looking for it.

Exactly So I am not going insane about all this that is absolutely what happened he would have had to search this for it to appear in his reading on his ipad. Just can’t believe he won’t admit to it when iv caught him out. Iv asked for.a phone bill statement funny how I haven’t received it as yet either .

OP posts:
Coldiron · 09/10/2024 09:22

It’s strange how these magically appearing escort profiles only ever appear on men’s ipads

raydavis · 09/10/2024 10:04

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 09:13

Exactly So I am not going insane about all this that is absolutely what happened he would have had to search this for it to appear in his reading on his ipad. Just can’t believe he won’t admit to it when iv caught him out. Iv asked for.a phone bill statement funny how I haven’t received it as yet either .

Could it potentially happen if he was on a porn site and clicked an ad banner by mistake? But if so, surely he would offer that explanation?
Oh and also provide a phone bill as requested.

Sorry op doesn't sound good 💐

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 10:17

raydavis · 09/10/2024 10:04

Could it potentially happen if he was on a porn site and clicked an ad banner by mistake? But if so, surely he would offer that explanation?
Oh and also provide a phone bill as requested.

Sorry op doesn't sound good 💐

Exactly funny how I been given nothing. Even it was a mistake then own it just say. I don’t believe it tho as I say I was a profile the link was her profile straight away but there was nothing on his search history or in google. Not good tho he’s not exactly fighting for us so badly right now.

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nwh · 09/10/2024 10:21

I think in this instance its right I tell you i'm a man, and here's what I think.

Not justifying, just explaining.

On some Porn sites, and that could be one of the most commonly known ones, if you click on a link, it opens up a new window, and the old window automatically goes to another web site. These could be a different porn site, but often for me it does to webcams, or escorts. I have no interest in these, and close them down, but they do come up. The cam sites do go to indivduals, the escorts have never done this.

I can imagine why a man would look through interest, but have no intention of visiting. Its not nice I know, but but it doesn't mean he's serious about visiting one.

However, if I was to be found with one of these on my screen, I'd be at pains to show that I had done nothing and it was an accidental feature, and be completely ok to show messages, phone bills, bank statements.

I can understand why someone wouldn't believe that the escort page wasn't there as an accident, and want to prove it.

I do think however its more unlikely that the individual escort page has popped up as an accident. I therefore do think its really ok to ask for proof that nothing else has happened.

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 12:59

nwh · 09/10/2024 10:21

I think in this instance its right I tell you i'm a man, and here's what I think.

Not justifying, just explaining.

On some Porn sites, and that could be one of the most commonly known ones, if you click on a link, it opens up a new window, and the old window automatically goes to another web site. These could be a different porn site, but often for me it does to webcams, or escorts. I have no interest in these, and close them down, but they do come up. The cam sites do go to indivduals, the escorts have never done this.

I can imagine why a man would look through interest, but have no intention of visiting. Its not nice I know, but but it doesn't mean he's serious about visiting one.

However, if I was to be found with one of these on my screen, I'd be at pains to show that I had done nothing and it was an accidental feature, and be completely ok to show messages, phone bills, bank statements.

I can understand why someone wouldn't believe that the escort page wasn't there as an accident, and want to prove it.

I do think however its more unlikely that the individual escort page has popped up as an accident. I therefore do think its really ok to ask for proof that nothing else has happened.

But then be Honest if that’s the case. I haven’t as yet received and phone bill bank statements and this had been a good few days now, ‘it only that but he’s not exactly at my door begin for us to sort this out either just blaming me for being insecure etc which has absolutely nothing to do with what I have seen. Porn well it has to be a similar website surely to of brought it anyway. The escort site was Eva Escorts. With red logo with her first letter of her name then it states she location then you click on it and it’s a profile page .

OP posts:
Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 13:00

If you have nothing to hide why would you not be straight on sending me evidence nothing has ever happened or didn’t do it.

OP posts:
nwh · 09/10/2024 13:04

Yes I agree with you, if I was innocent, I would want to prove you to I was.

He may have looked and not done anything, that might be hard to admit and he's covering that.

But I think there is a good chance he's not telling the truth. If I was innocent, I'd want to prove to you I was.

There are some things I think would be unreasonable to want to check, but I don't think you are being unreasonable

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 13:14

nwh · 09/10/2024 13:04

Yes I agree with you, if I was innocent, I would want to prove you to I was.

He may have looked and not done anything, that might be hard to admit and he's covering that.

But I think there is a good chance he's not telling the truth. If I was innocent, I'd want to prove to you I was.

There are some things I think would be unreasonable to want to check, but I don't think you are being unreasonable

Exactly all he said is he will send me his phone bill when he gets it I mean it’s not exactly difficult is it going on your account and email to me why is it taking days to do this.

I would understand if he jus looked but I guess again I would still wonder why, was the intention there to speak to this person.

if you were innocent and knew you were losing your girlfriend over this you would be makin sure you do all you can to prove me wrong.

OP posts:
Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 16:20

Phone bill received

OP posts:
offyoujollywelltrot · 09/10/2024 18:16

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 16:20

Phone bill received

FYI, men who do this usually have a second burner phone.

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 18:24

offyoujollywelltrot · 09/10/2024 18:16

FYI, men who do this usually have a second burner phone.

Had also crossed my mind too just don’t know how I’d ever find that out either.

OP posts:
offyoujollywelltrot · 09/10/2024 22:23

Lolla38 · 09/10/2024 18:24

Had also crossed my mind too just don’t know how I’d ever find that out either.

Search EVERYWHERE in the house. Car. Pockets, you name it. He could be keeping it locked away or even out of the house, but men who cheat usually have seconds phones, or something on their own phones that'll prove it.

maclen · 09/10/2024 22:53

Can't you check the iPad browsing history? I suspect it's just an advert from looking at porn to be honest. Especially if he's never done anything before and this is a first offence ...

Lolla38 · 10/10/2024 07:29

maclen · 09/10/2024 22:53

Can't you check the iPad browsing history? I suspect it's just an advert from looking at porn to be honest. Especially if he's never done anything before and this is a first offence ...

Nothing on the phone bill but I still have suspicions there could be another phone for sure. I just can’t trust him so I don’t see any future now. There was nothing on his history tabs but you can easily delete certain tabs can’t you just what you have been on. It’s very hard and I’m sad but I have to let him go. I will never. Know if he met one off this site, had intentions messages and it will always be in my mind now.

OP posts:
Lolla38 · 10/10/2024 07:30

And what a life to have to keep wondering what someone is doing all the time it isn’t healthy or/ fair.

OP posts:
offyoujollywelltrot · 10/10/2024 09:18

Do you have friends and/or family you can reach out to for support OP?

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