Does anyone else hate being told you will meet someone when you least expect it/don’t go looking for it. I’ve been single for nearly 8 years and it hasn’t happened for me. Doesn’t help that I am a lone parent so definitely not going to happen for me but people still insist I will meet someone when I’m not looking for it (I haven’t looked in 8 years) and it hasn’t happened. Am I wrong in thinking that you actually need to put in effort to meet someone especially these days? Mr right isnt just going to knock on my door. I know people do meet this way but I think it’s very very rare and the majority of people do actually have to make an effort if they want to meet someone and put yourself out there?