My friend wants to go away. I don’t want to go away with her as she is a drain and just moans about her problems. She would not pay petrol money. She always goes on about her ex who treated her badly yet she ignored the red flags at the beginning and still speaks to him. She can’t cope with being her dad’s carer. She does not realise I have my own life. She only contacts me when she is down. She has other friends and her sister but says she does not want to burden them!