Something you will never compromise on again

[SoSobored]

I have been ceremoniously dumped yesterday via WhatsApp after a 15 month relationship and a day before we were due a mini break. Fun times!

But I'm trying to stay positive and think of it as my own mini solo spa break, but it has got me thinking what are some of the things you will never compromise on (in my case again) in a relationship?

I NEVER want to kiss someone that smokes cigarettes again, in my life 🤮
I know for sure coming out of this relationship that I will never want a blended family

Thanks in advance 😁

Definitely smoking when I meet my now DP he said he didn't smoke ... he did he just knew it was a deal breaker for me he soon gave them up after ending up in hospital we think due to vaping.

I also wouldn't date a heavy drinker or gambler

I would never be with a man who spends money like water. Ex left after 20+ years and left me up to my eyes in debt due to his love of designer clothes/watches etc.

My now DP is not like that, he doesnt care about designer things. Its so nice to get to mid pay month and not worry about how i am going to afford to put food on the table or petrol in the car because i am absolutely skint.

Lack of initiative when it comes to sex. Never again will I be with someone who won't initiate or who initiates in the most cringey way imaginable.