Is my partner cheating

[FlakyBrickTiger]

A few weeks ago I found an unopened box of Tadalafil. I googled what they were for as I have never heard of them. Then this week I have found just 1 of those tablets. We haven’t had sex in a long time so if he isn’t using them on me then who is he using them for? I have read some men use them for the gym but be doesn’t do that either. We have been together 13 years and have children. I feel he is hiding something? Please give me so thoughts….

They are used to treat hypertension as well that's what viagra was originally created for , for heart problems . But he would need way for than 4 for any heart problems sorry OP

No sex for a few weeks when you are sorting stuff is normal .. no sec post baby is completely understandable post baby/s ... no sex ad infinitum whilst living as partners is a recipe for an affair .. sorry if that's the MN line .. it is however invariably the way affairs begin . It's just a fact . Is it right ? No probably not .. does it nevertheless happen ? Sorry but yes it does .. if it's been more than 4 months without (not including post partum) then this is a pretty standard behaviour. Not saying it's ok just saying it's what happens.

Sounds like you are both miserable. You are both not getting anything from this relationship anymore and there's no trust or intimacy, it seems very much dead in the water and you are both going through the day to day motions.