Talking to my partner and he picks up some recycling and walks out the room and out the house whilst I was talking and doesn't feel this is rude. Then I left our side door unlocked, not on purpose, probably menopause fog, I was in a work meeting when he came home, so he whatsapp me a message to say it was open and we could have been robbed. I knew he had come in the house so carried on in my meeting, if it wasnt him I certainly would have done something. AIBU to think this is rude and quite petty to message me. I've repeatedly asked him not to keep going on at me if I forget something like locking the door ut to him the menopause is a convenient excuse.